Thursday, November 2, 2017

Embracing the Bump

"You must be just about ready to pop!"

"Are you super uncomfortable?"

"Wow, you are much bigger this time around."

Just some of the lovely things I hear from day to day at 38 weeks pregnant. And while yes, I am much bigger this time than last time, yes I am super uncomfortable, and yes, I sure to hope I am just about ready to pop... I usually don't want to hear these comments from strangers. Or even from loved ones. I think that a general rule should be to just tell pregnant ladies they look great. Or say nothing at all. Probably go with that one, based on the emotional state of pregnant ladies. 

But in the last two weeks, I have been able to embrace my bump more than I have in the past. I'm not sure exactly when it started to happen, but I know that I had been really down on myself. Truthfully, I have gained a. lot. more weight this time around than I did with my first pregnancy. Nothing was fitting correctly. I am so swollen and uncomfortable that I simply didn't want to do anything.  

But then one day, my amazing little girl came up and rubbed my belly and said "Mommy, you are so pretty. Your belly is so big and beautiful!" And I realized that even if I was feeling so huge and down, my little girl could see beyond that. She helped me realize that a bump can by beautiful. So I decided that I needed to stop lounging around in my jammies and start embracing that bump. Maybe if I dressed it up a little, I would feel a little more confident in my bump. And let me tell you, I am now a firm believer that every pregnant lady should have a dress or two that she can feel fully comfortable in. Good clothes really do make all of the difference. (I received some items from Grey Rose Boutique in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own). 


I think that one of my struggles with dressing myself during this pregnancy has been that I just don't like maternity clothes. They are either really cute but SUPER expensive or terribly ugly. There just aren't a ton of options for great maternity wear. That's why I was so happy when Amber from Gray Rose Boutique sent me some pieces that have been absolutely perfect. While they aren't maternity pieces, they are both high waisted, which work perfectly for a growing belly, without breaking the bank or screaming "maternity clothes." 


And can we please talk about this green stripe dress for a minute?


I have literally been living in it for the last couple of weeks. It is the most comfortable fabric! I feel like I'm wearing my pajamas without looking frumpy. It's light weight and flowy, which has been perfect in this terribly hot fall in the desert. Pregnancy is not for the faint of heart, and getting through an Arizona summer just to stay in the 90s during fall can make it hard for anyone to want to get up and get dressed in the morning. But this dress has made a huge difference.

Gray Rose Boutique has a ton of amazing options for all body types, pregnant or not. I've loved my dresses and I can't wait until after this pregnancy to try an amazing pair of joggers as well as a super cute T-Shirt. They seriously have such great pieces!



In all, I am so pleased with my experience with Gray Rose Boutique. I will definitely be shopping with her again, even post baby bump. I love finding clothes that make me feel comfortable and confident, even when I'm pregnant and large. Perhaps I can even see in myself the beauty that my perfect little daughter is so quick to see. I'm grateful for this amazing little girl who can see in me what I can't see in myself.


If you are part of My Wife Tribe on Facebook, make sure to keep an eye out for our GIVEAWAY featuring a date night outfit from Gray Rose Boutique


Monday, October 30, 2017

Dressing Up My Bump with La Belle Bump

Last week, I had the great pleasure of hosting a charity Masquerade Ball for hurricane relief efforts. It was such an amazing experience, and I'm looking forward to sharing all of the details with you. One of the things that I was most worried about was finding an appropriate dress for the occasion. It was a formal event, and my 37 week bump is seriously gigantic! I had no idea what I would wear, and I definitely didn't want to buy a dress that I would only wear for one night and never be able to wear again... you know, unless I just so happen to be super pregnant for another formal event sometime in the future. As the event got closer and closer I was seriously stressed out. And I had basically just settled on wearing one of my Sunday dresses and calling it good. But I was secretly (or not so secretly) pretty sad about it.

Which is why I was beyond excited to stumble upon La Belle Bump.
(La Belle sent me a dress rental for the event at no cost to me. All opinions are completely my own).


La Belle is one incredible option for pregnant ladies. They rent out clothes to dress the bump and have everything from casual wear to formal gowns. And the best part? You don't have to totally expend your budget on clothes that you will only wear for a few short months.

I really wish that I had discovered La Belle Bump sooner! They have a few different options for subscription box rentals, and I definitely would have used their services during my entire pregnancy. It was so difficult for me to justify purchasing maternity clothing... clothes that usually cost twice as much as regular clothes, are not nearly as cute, and that I will only wear for a few months. So my maternity wardrobe consisted of about 5 staple pieces that I could mix and match with a couple of different bottoms.


But La Belle Bump is seriously a game changer. They have the cutest clothes and personalize a box just for your needs! And when you are done, you just send the items back in a prepaid envelope. It's seriously the best solution to the maternity wardrobe problem.

And if the day-to-day question of what to wear wasn't hard enough, if you happen to have a formal event to attend while pregnant, it is almost impossible to find a cute and affordable maternity gown. Believe me, I looked. They were either suuuuper expensive, or super ugly. Or both! But La Belle has an incredible formal line of rentals to choose from. I found the perfect dress for my event, and La Belle was so much fun to work with. They had me fill out a style questionnaire and then sent me a few picture options to choose the gown that was just right for me. And I was SO happy with my choice. The gown was comfortable and classy. I felt beautiful, which is really difficult for me at this point so far along in my pregnancy.


This was the first date night in a long time that I was actually excited about what I was wearing!


The event was a big hit, and I felt like a million bucks thanks to La Belle Bump! And when it was over, I simply packed the dress back into a prepaid envelope and shipped it back to them. Easiest thing ever.


So for all of my lovely pregnant friends, I hope you'll check out La Belle Bump for some amazing maternity wardrobe options. You won't be sad that you did!

Wednesday, September 6, 2017

Couples Getaway Box

Brad and I are always looking for new and unique date ideas. It's always so much fun to try new things and switch things up a little. We're also big fans of little trips with just the two of us. With life as busy as it has been recently, both of those things have been a little more difficult than usual. It's tricky to plan new dates when time is limited, and it's most definitely hard to get away with a little one at home, another on the way, a new home to get in order, a new job with long hours, and the usual daily grind. That's why I was so excited about the idea of the Couples Getaway Box! 
(I received a free box in return for my honest review. As always, all opinions are my own). 
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The Couple's Getaway Box is such a versatile subscription box! It is meant to either inspire an actual couple's getaway or create a great getaway inspired stay-at-home date night. Since jetting off to Florida was definitely not an option right now, we went for the latter and had one awesome stay-at-home date!


To start our date, we broke out the Conversation Starter cards that were included in the box. These were probably our favorite part of the box! It was as though we were actually on a road trip, talking about all sorts of things that we wouldn't usually talk about. I am a big fan of conversation starters, since they open up a whole world on topics that you just don't usually talk about. I think these were my favorite part of the box, because they got us away from talking about paint colors, health insurance, bills to pay, and appointments to keep. They helped us have an at-home getaway of sorts.


After our little "road trip," we enjoyed reading about each of the items featured in the box so that we could learn about different places we might have visited had we actually made the trip. This was even more fun than I would have guessed! It was like a virtual vacation! This box was centered on Key West, Florida and included a few great treats from the area. It was as though we had actually taken a trip and come back with some fun souvenirs. It was a blast to snack on the yummy key lime cookies and guava jam. And the bath bomb was one of the best smelling bombs I've ever had. Seriously so relaxing!


Overall, this made for one really fun date! It was a blast to do something different, pretend like we were having a romantic getaway, and forget about the day-to-day stresses in a way that only a vacation can. If you're interested in trying our own Couples Getaway Box, you can sign up HERE to receive bi-monthly boxes. Whether you are going to take an actual trip, or just need to shake up your usual date night routine, this is a great option for all couples!

If you are a member of My Wife Tribe (my Facebook group), make sure to watch tomorrow for a Giveaway for a chance to win a FREE Couples Getaway Box.

Friday, August 18, 2017

Date Box Swap Reveal and Link Up

I seriously can't believe that we are more than halfway through August! Things have been quiet around here since we bought our first home and have been working to get it organized and such before Brad goes back to work. But I just had to jump in and tell you about the amazing experience I had with the Date Box Swap! This was seriously such a fun box swap and one that I will definitely be organizing again!

If you didn't catch the original post, the Date Box Swap was a chance for ladies to be paired up with a fellow wifey pen pal, get to know each other over the course of a couple of months, and then send each other a date in the mail. And I have to tell you, I had an absolutely BLAST!



I was able to have two amazing wifey partners. I think that the most fun part of the entire thing was being able to get to know them and plan a date that I thought they would really enjoy. But truth be told, it was also so much fun wondering what they would send and then getting those fun packages in the mail! Opening a date night that was specifically planned for you is definitely fun! 

One of my partners, Lindsay, sent such a fun date for new home owners! I had told her that we were just moved in to our new house and kind of overwhelmed with how much more space we had to fill compared to our last place. She sent the most amazing smelling candle as well as a gift card for us to go on a date shopping for home decor. What a fun date idea! We've had such much fun browsing Pinterest and coming up with plans for how to fill our space. That is going to be one amazing date!


My other partner, Kenzi from The HatMaker's Suitcase put so much effort into one of the most fun dates we have been on! She knew that we would be moving back home and have access to babysitters again, so she sent us on a mystery date! He box included 4 sealed envelopes and two sealed gifts along with instructions for how to proceed with the date. It was such a blast! We did this date last weekend and had such a good time opening each envelope and seeing where we would go next. We were supposed to start out at the library, but it was unfortunately closed by the time we got started. So instead we improvised a little and did that step from home. From there, Kenzi sent us to a romantic location with a romantic task, dinner at P.F. Chang's (it's like she read Brad's mind... he's been craving that for ages), and then to dessert. The most fun was revealing the next location and having everything be a total mystery! Seriously so fun!




I was so grateful to both of my partners for sending me the most amazing dates. I loved this swap, because it totally helped get us out of a Date Night rut and doing things that we wouldn't have thought of ourselves. 

I can't wait to see what all of you received in your Date Boxes! So it's time to link up any blog posts about the swap below! If you don't blog, make sure to post pictures of your box on social media using #DateBoxSwap so that we can see all of your goodies!

I will most definitely be organizing another swap! I will be posting sign ups in October for a November-December swap, so make sure to check back here to get signed up. You can also sign up for my newsletter HERE to make sure you don't miss the sign ups!






Wednesday, August 2, 2017

Fiiz Date Night

We are officially moved to Arizona, and I could not be more excited! It has been a little crazy, and I feel that I won't get through all of these boxes for at least three weeks... but it feels so good to be home. And so exciting to be home owners!

With all of the craziness of the move, it was so important for us to take some time away from the crazy and make date night a priority. With everything that was going on, it was difficult to do anything that took too much time. So we wanted to plan some dates that were fun, helped us reconnect, but that could be done in the limited time that we had. Even when schedules are crazy, we just need that time to reconnect.

So we planned a super fun group date at a local soda shop, Fiiz Las Vegas. It was seriously just what we needed! We were able to get out with friends, do something super fun, and have some amazing drinks and cookies. Thank you to Fiiz Las Vegas for sponsoring this post. All opinions are my own. 


Fiiz specialty sodas

If you haven't ever been to Fiiz, you are missing out. Fiiz makes specialty sodas in literally every flavor you could imagine. Since it was date night, I went with one of the Sodas on their secret menu called "Sassy Love Potion." It is a Sprite base with passion fruit, lime, and strawberry. It was seriously incredible!

Fiiz has every soda you can imagine and flavor shots to make hundreds of combinations. You are sure to find something that you will love. They have everything from these specialty sodas to Italian Sodas to Harry Potter inspired butterbeer and frozen hot chocolate. They have seriously thought of everything.

Grabbing drinks definitely makes for the perfect quick date night on those weeks when you are really pushed for time. You may not have time to sit down to an entire meal, but grabbing drinks is a quick alternative and still gives you some quality time together.

Fiiz Las Vegas


Since we had a little extra time, we made this a group date! It was so fun to get together with friends and see all of the different drinks they tried. And can we please talk about the amazing cookies for just a minute? You NEED to try one of their red velvet cookies. I'm not exaggerating when I tell you that it was one of the best cookies that I have ever had, and the group would agree with me.

While you're hanging out at Fiiz, they have tons of fun games that you can play. Or you can bring your own! We played the Dating Diva's "Not So Newlywed Game" and had a total blast! This game is perfect for couples who have been married for awhile or not long at all. You take turns asking husbands and wives different questions about their relationships and seeing if their answers match up! And the super cute printables from the Divas are totally free! So make sure to check them out HERE. Questions range from things like "what was the date that you got engaged?" to "who has the worst morning breath?" The questions are a fun way to get to know other couples as well, so this game makes for the perfect group date! I think we will be hosting another date night soon with another version of this game.



It was seriously such a fun night! If you are in Las Vegas, Arizona, or Utah,  make sure to find a Fiiz location and try one of their amazing sodas. You will definitely be back time and again because there are SO many to choose from!



Have you been to Fiiz before? Which drink did you try?

Monday, July 24, 2017

To My Firstborn: A Letter to my Daughter as you Become a Big Sister



Dearest Little One,

It seems like just yesterday that we welcomed you into the world. And yet, somehow, more than two years have passed by and you are growing up so fast. You are everything I had hoped you would be and more. You are a joy and a light in our home. And now, you are about to become a big sister.

I have so many thoughts and things to say to you. You made me a mother. You have taught me so many lessons. You are infinitely patient with me. You see my best, even when I'm at my worst. And as excited as I am for the arrival of your little sister, I have found myself almost mourning this time of my life. Things are going to change. And I worry that I will miss this time. And then I feel guilty for those feelings. I don't know if what I'm feeling is normal, but I will miss so many things about our life right now.

I will miss the way we can sit for an hour at a time reading your favorite books. I'm afraid that you will cry and not understand when I have to go tend to your sister after just a book or two. I will miss the way we sit, with your arm wrapped around mine. I will miss being able to say 'yes' every time you ask for 'just one more' and we end up reading for another half hour.

I will miss the way you run up to me, grab my face between your hands, and say "Mommy and Kymri, best friends forever!" Because you will have a new little bestie. And I know I will be so glad, but for now I am just a little sad.

I worry about disappointing you. Right now, I can almost always say yes. Yes, we can sit and play with your princess castle. Yes, we can do a craft right this moment. Yes, we can get all the paints out. But in three more months, I know that I will have to say 'not right now' sometimes. I'll have to wait until after I nurse the baby. After I get her down for a nap. After bath. After this diaper change. And I worry that you won't understand. That you will be so sad that I'm no longer at your beck and call. And I worry that I won't give you the attention you need.

I will miss the uninterrupted time that we get to spend together. I will miss the one-on-one time. I will miss being able to give you my undivided attention.

But they say that somehow with each child, my heart will expand. I will have room enough for both of you. I will have love enough for both of you. Life is going to change, but deep down I know that it is only going to get even better. Even more beautiful. Even more full.

I can't promise that it won't be a difficult transition for you. But I can promise that I will still be there for you. I will still love you with my whole heart. I will still give you all that I can. I might have to say 'not right now,' but I promise that we will get to it. I will still spend time with you. You aren't being replaced. We are just getting another best friend!

And I know that you are going to be the most amazing big sister. Because when I find myself worrying about these things, you do something to help me realize that everything is going to be alright. You will kiss my belly and say "I love you, baby!" You will ask me when your new baby can come out to play. You will tell me how excited you are for your new baby to get here. You will take out your dolls and practice rocking your baby. And I know that we are going to be more than okay.

So for the next three months, let's read all your books. Let's lay on a blanket in the yard for as long as you want. Let's have a tea party and invite all of your stuffed animals.

But remember that there is even more fun to be had. And in three months, we will surely wonder how we ever got along without our new precious baby.

I love you my little one,
Mommy


mother daughter


Monday, July 17, 2017

Stay At Home Date Night: DIY Couple's Massage

Do you ever feel like you'll never quite catch up with your ever growing to-do list? As our moving day looms closer and closer, I feel like I keep thinking of more and more things that need to get done. I need to clean the house top to bottom so that we make sure to get our cleaning deposit back, I need to verify that all of our utilities will be turned off in Nevada on the right date and turned on in Arizona on the right date, I need to look at more carpet samples and try to make a decision on which one we like, I need to confirm times with the moving company... You get the idea. And Brad's to-do list is much longer than my own. On top of all of his moving tasks, he's still working full time and wrapping up all of his last projects. So to say we're busy is an understatement.

We're finding that our time spent together is mostly all business. Who is going to call the lender and make sure that the final documents are ready to go so that our loan goes through? Who is going to check in with the realtor about doing a final walk through via skype? Who is going to pick up the tacos for dinner, because I'm sure not cooking tonight (that last one is only sort-of a joke).

So it's become more difficult to connect in a meaningful way. That's why I'm extra excited to share with you a fast way to reconnect after a busy day that will help you to relax and rejuvenate together. Give each other massages using massage lotions or oils. I received oils in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own. 

Stay at home date night idea couple's massage


Recently, we tried the doTERRA Aromatouch Massage Kit. At first I was a little nervous about so many smells in one massage, but the kit is so well planned and thought out that the different scents in the oils blend really well together. The kit comes with massage techniques, which was great since we didn't really know what we were doing. We enjoyed both the full body massages and the hand massages.

Today, I'll be sharing how to do a full body AromaTouch massage with your spouse. (You can see images for each movement and watch videos on how to do each movement HERE). If you are using doTERRA oils, you will do different oil introductions at various points, so follow the kit instructions. If you are using other oils or lotions, these motions still make for a great massage!

doTERRA AromaTouch Kit DIY Couples Massage

First, perform three clockwise palm circles. You palms will move together in a clockwise circle three times across the hard area of the upper back.

Next, perform the alternating palm slide three times on each side of the back. This motion should be done on the opposite side of where you are standing. Palms should slide from the spine to the side, beginning at the lower back and alternating hands until you reach the crown of the head. Repeat three times, then transition to the opposite side and repeat the process.

Third, you will perform the 5 zone activation. This one is a little tricky to explain, and I definitely recommend watching the video. Basically, you will stand at the crown of the head, reach down to the recipient's tale bone and rub your hands along the spine to the crown of the head. Then you will return your hands to the sacrum, with hands slightly further away from the spine pulling hands up and then along the shoulders. Repeat for all 5 zones (moving hands out further each time).

Auricular stress reduction comes next. Grip each ear lobe between your thumb and forefinger, working your fingers in small circles along the ear to the top. Then, slide your thumb along the back of the ear to return to the lobe. Repeat three times.

Repeat the Alternating Palm Slide and the 5 Zone activation twice.

Perform the thumb walk tissue pull. Your thumbs move along either side of the spine in circular motions from the lower back to the crown of the head. Repeat three times.

Repeat the alternating palm slide, the five zone activation, and the thumb walk tissue pull.

Moving to the feet, perform a regional tissue pull by using your thumbs in a circular motion, and massaging the foot from heel to toe in a zig-zag pattern. Next, on the same foot, perform the pinpoint zone activation.  Basically, you press your thumbs (alternating) from heel to each of the 5 toes. Perform the 5 zone tissue pull on the same foot. To do this, run your thumbs three times from heel to each toe.  

Repeat these three steps on the opposite foot.

Perform the alternating palm slide one last time.

Perform 3 clockwise palm circles.

Finish by performing the lymphatic movement. Slightly lift the recipient's legs off the table and rock him back and forth for 15-30 seconds. Repeat three times.

DIY Massage


Let me tell you, this is one amazing massage. We felt much more legit than just rubbing each other's backs. And it was nice to be able to connect physically and emotionally after such a busy and hectic time. We will definitely be adding DIY massages to our list of Stay-At-Home-Date Ideas.

If you are interested in an Aromatouch Kit, make sure to get in contact with Leslie, our Doterra representative. You can find her on Facebook, Instagram, or her Doterra site.

Stay At Home Date Idea Couple's Massage



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